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Powerful Way to Understand Children’s Perspectives
November 17, 2020
You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view.
-Harper Lee

Deb Curtis, in her popular book, Really Seeing Children, explains a technique she uses to help her understand children’s motivations:

"A few years ago, I discovered that I could learn to see children’s perspectives in very powerful ways if I observed them closely and then tried out what they were doing. I had been frustrated with a group of boys who had taken to zooming small cars off of block ramps they built. They would fling the cars across the tilted ramps, watching them fly through the air, hitting the ceiling, the windows, and sometimes, people. I spent a lot of time trying to stop their behavior, but to no avail. After the boys left one day, my co-teacher and I decided to try out the cars and ramps ourselves. Much to our surprise, we had a blast! We experienced the excitement and challenge as we built the ramps and zoomed the cars.

With this new perspective, we approached the children’s work in a very different way. We offered the boys challenges to build their ramps more carefully and control the speed of the cars more accurately. They took up our suggestions and the activity became a focused, complex learning experience for all. Since then, trying out what children are doing has become a regular practice for me to see them more clearly."

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Deb Curtis, in her more than 40 years as an early childhood educator, has cultivated a reflective teaching practice devoted to really seeing children.

Through her collection of stories and photographs, learn to suspend your adult agenda to really see children's perspectives and the amazing ways they experience the world. Taking up this practice will bring joy and deeper understanding to your work and life and allow you to engage with children in a more meaningful teaching and learning process.

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Exchange Press · November 23, 2020
United States

Thank you, Mae! Glad to hear :)

Mae Gillispie · November 17, 2020
CMC Daycare
Ashville, Al, United States

I really liked this article. It was a plus to add to encouragement to look at things in a different perspective

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