What To Know about Autism

Ellen Notbohm posted a message, "Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew" based on her book by the same name.  Here are two things to know:

I am a child
"My autism is part of who I am, not all of who I am.  Are you just one thing, or are you a person with thoughts, feelings, preferences, ideas, talents, and dreams? Are you fat (overweight), myopic (wear glasses), or klutzy (uncoordinated)?  Those may be things that I see first when I meet you, but you’re more than just that, aren’t you? As an adult, you have control over how you define yourself.  If you want to single out one characteristic, you can make that known.  As a child, I am still unfolding.  Neither you nor I yet know what I may be capable of.  If you think of me as just one thing, you run the danger of setting up an expectation that may be  too low.  And if I get a sense that you don’t think I 'can do it,' my natural response will be, why try?"

Help me with social interactions
"It may look like I don’t want to play with the other kids on the playground, but it may be that I simply do not know how to start a conversation or join their play. Teach me how to play with others.  Encourage other children to invite me to play along.  I might be delighted to be included.  I do best in structured play activities that have a clear beginning and end.  I don’t know how to read facial expressions, body language, or the emotions of others.  Coach me.  If I laugh when Emily falls off the slide, it’s not that I think it’s funny.  It’s that I don’t know what to say.  Talk to me about Emily’s feelings and teach me to ask, 'Are you okay?'"

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