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Imagine you've come home after a bad day, totally exhausted, and the first person you talk to says, "You think you had a bad day? That’s nothing compared to mine!" Do you feel better or worse? Do you want to talk or walk away?

"Whether we're parents, teachers, or business leaders, we usually prefer to talk with someone who is attuned to our point of view and avoid someone who is critical or competitive," says Ellen Galinsky in her book Mind in the Making. She writes about perspective taking as one of the life skills children need, yet notes how hard a practice it is for all of us to develop.

"It is far easier to want others to take our perspectives than it is to understand the perspectives of others. Sometimes we think we know how others see things, but when we actually ask, we may be surprised."

Ellen Galinsky provides research-based advice for parents and teachers on how to raise their children to be well rounded and achieve their full potential — learning to take on life’s challenges, communicating well with others, and remaining committed to learning.

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