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Are Fathers More Involved?
November 24, 2008
You can't depend on your judgment when your imagination is out of focus.
-Mark Twain in Notebook
Much has been made of the new caring, nurturing father, but research reveals little evidence in changes in family life. In the New York Times Magazine (June 11, 2008), Lisa Belkin observes...

"Social scientists know in remarkable detail what goes on in the average American home. And they have calculated with great precision how little has changed in the roles of men and women. Any way you measure it, they say women do twice as much around the house as men.

"The most recent figures from the University of Wisconsin's National Survey of Families and Households show the average wife does 31 hours of housework a week, while the average husband does 14.... If you break out couples in which wives stay home and husbands are the sole earners, the number of hours goes up for women, to 38 hours of housework a week, and down a bit for men to 12, a ratio of three to one. That makes sense, because the couples have defined the home as one partner's work.

"But then break out couples in which both husband and wife have full-time paying jobs. There, the wife does 28 hours of housework and the husband, 16. Just shy of two to one, which makes no sense at all....

"Where the housework ratio is two to one, the wife-to-husband ratio for child care in the United States is close to five to one. As with housework, that ratio does not change as much as you would expect when you account for who brings home the paycheck. In a family where Mom stays home and Dad goes to work, she spends 15 hours a week caring for children and he spends 2. In families in which both parents are wage earners, Mom's average drops to 11 and Dad's goes up to 3."



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Don Piburn · November 24, 2008
Hawaii, United States


The solution rests entirely in the way we raise the world’s youngest children. A 2003 United Nations Division for the Advancement of Women (UNDAW) report on the roles of men and boys in achieving gender equality defined the fact that girls and boys in most societies experience care giving and early care and education (ECE) as principally female obligations as a “key aspect of gender inequalities” (UNDAW, 2004, p.15). When chidlren don’t see men involved in domestic, care giving, or nurturing roles, they draw stereotypic assumptions about their respective gender roles.

When young children are use to seeing images of nurturing males on classroom walls and in their picture books, to hearing stories on the diverse roles of men, and to being cared for and nurtured by fathers, fathering figures, and male early childhood educators, they come to expect caregiving, nurturing, and teaching as typical male behaviors. When the field sets in earnest to eliminate the biases, scrutiny, and commonly held assumptions about men embedded in its workplace culture, then nurturing fathers, fathering figures, and men who teach will sense their school communities as places where their contributions are valued and the number of involved men will multiply. ECE can revolutionize the value that the next generation places on male nurturing behavior, provided we recognize the opportunity and come to expect male involvement as a measure of quality and a natural course toward gender equality for all the worlds’ children.

dr. mrs. darshan kaur narang · November 24, 2008
university of rajasthan
jaipur, rajasthan, India


The results concluded by University of Wisconsin's National Survey of Families and Households are useful for accepting the fact of imbalance of duties in the modern age where we talk much for women equality. Such studies must be encouraged with due care of honesty in data collection & analysis.Such studies need publicity with precautions of avoiding conflicts among parents.



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